| Location | Wigan |
| Age | 20 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 04/10/1986 |
| Date of Death | 25/11/2006 |
| Visitors | 10,947 since 03/10/2008 |
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Tony was my son but also my friend. He found it hard to mix with people and turned to alcohol to give himself confidence and in the end it was this that took his short life away from his three brothers and his sister his dad his aunties uncles cousins grandparents nephews and nieces and of course myself. He did have many friends so many i cant name them all He was an angel when he was sober but a little devil when he had had a few beers. Its coming up to our Tonys 23rd birthday so i thought i would update his memorial.It still feels like yesterday and i can still remember every single detail of that day anyone who as lost their child will know what i mean the friday before this happened we had had a falling out nothing unusual coz he was a little pest when he was drunk he went sitting in the entry next to our house and i went in the bath i could hear him calling me "mum "mum " i had locked the door until he had calmed down then when he went quiet i crept down and unlocked the door coz i knew he would come in later, i lied in bed waiting to hear him come in then he went in his room and only then could i fall asleep knowing he was safe,the next morning when i got up for work he normally would be waiting outside the bedroom door to wind me up but he wernt so just before i left for work i crept into his room to check he was ok and he looked so peacefull fast asleep i went to work feeling happy. Around 12.30 on my way home from work i went a different way home never done this before because the way i went was longer and i even waited in traffic when there was none my usual way,i got home and it was silent but i could hear our tonys radio on in his room but no noise so thought he might still be asleep,i then went to pick his dad up from work and when we arrived back home i said to him listen he said what to i said its to quiet then my sister rang and said she had passed an ambulance just around corner on my usual route home she asked was our tony in but that was normal because everytime anything happened we always thought about him being in trouble within 10 mins i had a phone call of a girl asking if our tony was ok i didnt want to check his room i was to scared to. so i rang hospital and asked if he had been taken to hospital and the nurse who answewed asked who i was and said she would ring me back as i put the phone down and looked through the window i saw a woman look towards our house i knew then he had gone i said to his dad when the police come to tell us dont open door at that moment i saw a car pull onto the front of our house i just ran upstairs screaming dont tell me dont tell me i already knew i had lost my baby boy. I remember them asking me to identify him a few days later and when i went to the mortuary i saw him and he looked so happy i turned to the officer there and said he dont look like hes dead to me and i know this sounds so stupid but i really thought they had made a mistake it was only a few days later when i had not seen him that i began to realise he wernt going to come home again It seems he had fallen drunk and a so called friend had run of and left him on a field to this day i think if this person would have called an ambulance he would still be here,an old lady in her late 80s i would say found him and tried to save him god bless her she tried all she could i went to see her and she said she tried to bring him round but couldnt i cant thank this kind lady enough.I have just found out a young lad found him first and ran to call an ambulance i only found this out a few days ago and have still to thank him for doing so . Tony wasnt my youngest but he was in my eyes my baby and will always be my baby,You know what i still feel the same pain today as i did that day it wont ever go away and i dont want it to coz i wont ever forget him even for an hour. At his funeral about a week later his three brothers and his cousin john who he was close to carried him into church this was the first time i had seen his coffin it was heartbreaking and his eldest brother warren stood up to speak about him it must of been so hard for him but he did him proud and me to.lots of people came except the so called friend who i hope i never see again..you never really spoke about your friends but since we lost you so many have told me things you did some funny some proper daft but that was you lad didnt think about the consequences you didnt bother .love you so much , MISS YOU MY BEAUTIFUL SON SO MUCH WILL THINK ABOUT YOU EVERY SECOND OF EVERYDAY. I DO BELIEVE YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE AND WHEN IT COMES MY TIME TO GO I WILL BE SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU AGAIN. ALL MY LOVE NOW AND ALWAYS FOR EVER AND EVER LOVE MUM XXXXXXXX AND IF YOUR READING THIS LOVE I DID FEEL THE KISS YOU GAVE ME WHEN I WAS ALMOST ASLEEP AND IT FELT SO NICE.
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This gentle, blessed night
Fair angels doth adorn,
Unseen, take their flight
Before the birth of morn.
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No mortal could abide
On this night so very fair,
Without joy inside
For the grace of being there.
(Walter Westfall)
★....★....★....★..Love Jude. x x.★....★....★....★
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This gentle, blessed night
Fair angels doth adorn,
Unseen, take their flight
Before the birth of morn.
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No mortal could abide
On this night so very fair,
Without joy inside
For the grace of being there.
(Walter Westfall)
★....★....★....★..Love Jude. x x.★....★....★....★
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On days when you're tired
Not sure you can go on
- Your Angel Knows -
And will wrap you in an Angel hug
To let you rest till your weariness is gone.
On days when you're down
Just feeling so blue
- Your Angel Knows -
And will tenderly take you in her arms
To cherish and help cheer you.
On days when you're hurting
Really feeling that pain
- Your Angel Knows -
And will wrap you in a blanket of love
To give you courage and help keep you sane.
On those nights when you're lonely
And there's no one to be found
- Your Angel Knows -
She'll gently enfold you in her wings
To give comfort and let you know
she'll always be around.
And on the days when you're happy
Things are going just right
- Your Angel Knows -
She'll smile and say a prayer of thanks
And give you an Angel hug so tight.
Day and night no matter what
Your Angel is always close by
To help guard you and protect you
Till someday you have your own wings to fly.
copyright by AngelWinks
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Love Jude. x x
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On days when you're tired
Not sure you can go on
- Your Angel Knows -
And will wrap you in an Angel hug
To let you rest till your weariness is gone.
On days when you're down
Just feeling so blue
- Your Angel Knows -
And will tenderly take you in her arms
To cherish and help cheer you.
On days when you're hurting
Really feeling that pain
- Your Angel Knows -
And will wrap you in a blanket of love
To give you courage and help keep you sane.
On those nights when you're lonely
And there's no one to be found
- Your Angel Knows -
She'll gently enfold you in her wings
To give comfort and let you know
she'll always be around.
And on the days when you're happy
Things are going just right
- Your Angel Knows -
She'll smile and say a prayer of thanks
And give you an Angel hug so tight.
Day and night no matter what
Your Angel is always close by
To help guard you and protect you
Till someday you have your own wings to fly.
copyright by AngelWinks
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...Good Morning Angel...
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-:✿:- Whispєr In Thє Wind -:✿:-
sσmєtimєs whєn I αm αll αlσnє
I think I cαn hєαr α stIll smαll vσicє
-:✿:- likє α whispєr in thє wind -:✿:-
єvєrч σncє in α whilє I sit in чσur rσσm
I fєєl αs thσugh I'vє вєєn вrєαthєd upσn
-:✿:- likє α whispєr in thє wind -:✿:-
In thє lαtє σf night αs I lαч αwαkє
I fєєl cσσlnєss upσn mч fαcє
-:✿:- likє α whispєr in thє wind -:✿:-
sσmєtimєs whєn I'm αlσnє αnd it's quiєt
I listєn fσr thє whispєr in thє wind,
I sσmєtimєs hєαr...I lσvє чσu...-:✿:-
-:✿:-..Cσlєmαn Dσчlє Alldrєdgє...-:✿:-
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I Feel It In The Air
I know it's Easter time again,
I feel it in the air.
The breath of spring with woodsy tang,
And new life everywhere.
And spring glides on with magic touch
O'er mountain side and glen;
And wakens all the sleeping plants
For Easter time again.
The brooklets leap from rock to rock,
As if in joyful play;
The flowers peep from darkened tombs
To welcome Easter Day.
The birds are swinging on the boughs,
And trill in ecstasy;
They seem to show the world's great joy
Of Easter mystery.
Why should we dread
the thing called death?
It's just an open door,
Where all within is love and peace
And joy forever more.
"Because I live, you too shall live,"
We hear the Saviour say.
Let's consecrate our lives anew,
On this glad Easter Day.
~By Edna Reed~
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